However, there are times when your sex life becomes boring, regardless of whether you are single or married.
For some reasons, married people take sex for granted and often say that they do not have time for sex. The fact is that you must make time for sex. And there are ways to do so, even if you are the busiest person on the planet.
Regardless of your profession or schedule on daily basis, these methods will help you outline ways to create time for sex and save your marriage from the verge of collapse.
1. Make a commitment to having sex
The first step to finding time for sex is to decide that you are simply going to have sex. Talk to your spouse and make a commitment to one another to have sex a certain number of times per week or month, whatever will satisfy both of you.
Then, keep that promise. Until and unless you make the decision to definitely have sex, you will come up with excuses or get sidetracked by other things. Now, this does not mean that sex should become a chore on your to-do list. It just means that you have decided to make sex a priority.
2. Let s3x happen
We have all had those moments where our spouse sneaks up on us from behind or plants a big movie-like kiss on us unexpectedly. Things might start to get hot and heavy, but one of you says, “Not now, I have to wash the dishes, mow the lawn and do some work.”
The next time your spouse signals you, go with the flow. Let sex happen, even if you think you are too tired. Trust me, a few of the right strokes and your spouse will more than wake you up , and you might even rest more peacefully after making love.
3. Schedule sex
This might not sound very romantic. But we schedule everything else in our lives, so why not sex? By penciling in time for sex, you are making sure that it will happen. After all, if you plan on having sex from 9 to 10 p.m. on Tuesday, you will not make any other appointments or schedule any other activities during that time. You will certainly have time for it. You will literally be working sex into your schedule. Having sex is more romantic than not having it, so feel free to schedule to your heart’s content. Of course, make sure your spouse is scheduling sex for the same time, too.
4. Build anticipation for sex
If you are anticipating or desiring sex, you are more likely to make time for it. Lots of foreplay – sexy text messages, playful kissing and touching in the morning before work, or wearing your sexiest lingerie under your work clothes – can all help boost desire. You will not be able to think of anything else but sex. When you get home, you will be more than happy to put off doing the laundry or taking out the garbage for a little time in bed with your spouse. In fact, if you keep building anticipation for sex, you might not even have to schedule it anymore.
5. Follow up with more sex
Talk to your spouse after a few weeks of putting in this additional effort to have sex. Discuss whether you are both satisfied with the improvements. You might find that having the desire for more sex is making you want more sex. Maybe you will work even more sex into your busy schedule.
Maybe you will be fine with your new sex life just the way it is. not only does sex sets you and your spouse apart from simply being roommates, it also requires a deeper level of communication that you do not do on a regular basis.
Sex requires you to talk to each other about intimate and emotional things.This requires that you both feel a comfort level with each other that you have never felt with anyone else before. It requires you to both become very vulnerable by asking, receiving and giving sexually. And it requires you to reach a deeper level of trust.
However, it is important to check in with one another about matters such as sex, which can cause rifts in a marriage. Sex should be one of the things that unite the two of you and not one of the things that divides you. Keep it that way by making sex a part of your marriage routine. You will find that your marriage is more fun with sex than without it.
The only thing you uniquely share with your spouse that you do not share with anyone else is sex. so sex is the only thing that sets you and your spouse apart from simply being roommates. it is a vital part of marriage.
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